Cherish part 1
03/11/2016 10:13These are some of the things I tell Logan all the time: "If you want to HAVE a friend, you have to BE a friend." And, "If you're not careful with your stuff, you won't have any stuff." And that's what I kind of want to Rant about for the next few days. How we treat the things (people) that are important to us. Because, first off, I think people are really the only "things" that are important. And, secondly, I see it all too often that we take advantage of the people that are willing to do things for us. I absolutely believe that everybody should have at least one person that they're willing to do anything for. And that they should have at least one person in their life that is willing to do anything for them. Call it a best friend, if you will. Or a bff (best friend forever). But I also think we should treat everybody as if we love them. Which, of course, takes a radical understanding of love. Because love is radical. Real, true, agape, lay your life down love. God love. The kind of love Jesus told us about, and then showed us. The kind of love we find in John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Not just loving someone, but SO loving them. Loving them SO much that you're willing to give. Like Abraham of old, willing to give that which meant the most to you. Which, of course, was a type and shadow of what God did on the cross. Giving His only begotten Son so that we could all BE His beloved Son in whom He is well pleased. Jesus giving His life for us and giving His life to us. So that we could experience that abundant, everlasting, eternal, Resurrection Life that is the unconditional love relationship between Father and Son. God did it because He loved us. The NLT says it like this, "For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life." He loved us so much that He would rather die than be without us. He wanted us to KNOW and BELIEVE His love... so He proved it to us. He explained that the greatest love a man can have is to lay down His life for His friends. And then He went to the cross and did just that. He gave us something to believe in. He gave us something to share with each other. He gave us Himself. He gave us love. The Holy Spirit. Our love receptor. So that we might receive it and release it. So that we might stop looking at each other as people to take advantage of, and see ourselves as different parts of the same body. And that's my key verse for this Rant series: "For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church" (Ephesians 5:29). When we understand that we're all in this together, all parts of the same body, then the "us vs them" mentality goes away. And we begin to love and cherish each other. Nourish each other. Edify each other. Build each other up instead of tearing each other down. Appreciate and celebrate each other instead of taking each other for granted. Give to each other instead of trying to get from each other. And that, my friends, is what the Kingdom of God (the Kingdom of LOVE) is all about! It's not about what you can get. It's about sharing what you've got. Taking care of people. Knocking down walls and building bridges. Because people are worth it. They really are. They're worth the time and the effort. They're worth cherishing!